Hairdos

Okay so first off for the flowers I am leaning more and more towards hydrageas. I love this.

This is what I am thinking for the bridesmaids. Not sure how alyssas hair will work because hers is shorter though...

For my hair I was thinking a messy curly updo. And I've had a really hard time finding a picture of what I am thinking in my head. I really like this first one, but I almost want my curls a little more apparent? Less wavy more curly? I like the pieces coming down in places. I even like the flowers in the hair. I think I will want my bangs pulled back though. Not sure about a veil or if I even want one yet...

Thoughts?